What men want out of texting
Men want to chase you
Playing hard to get isn’t as simple as some people make it out to be. If you’ve ever played with a cat and a string you’ll understand this principle.
You need to bring the string close enough to them to get them interested but just out of their reach.
Men thrive on challenge and proving themselves.They often don’t know what to do when a good thing just falls right into their lap.
Then, one night, at the department mixer they were together outside the campus pub. The sun was setting and there was no one else around. Janine saw that Ethan had that look in his eyes. When he leaned in to kiss her, it was like the whole world stopped turning just for them.
Three Sexting Rules
1. KEEP IT FUNNY AND FLIRTY
Sexting is only awkward if you make it that way. Being flirty and silly are super important to breaking the tension and driving him wild.
2. A LITTLE GOES A LONG WAY
This shouldn’t be a daily or even weekly occurrence. The less often you get X-rated with his inbox, the more exciting it will be when you do.
3. DON’T BE SHY
If you decide to do some sexy texting with a guy, don’t hold back. If you’re going to send nudes, don’t do it half-assed.
Janine got his number that night and they texted a few times but, somehow, that was as far as things ever went. He’d respond to her messages a few hours late if at all.They’d pass each other in the hallways and make small talk but every conversation was awkward and fell flat. She felt like she was talking to some distant relative. Where was the sexy, impulsive Ethan that had held her in his arms the night of the party?
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Playing hard to get isn’t as simple as some people make it out to be. If you’ve ever played with a cat and a string you’ll understand this principle.
You need to bring the string close enough to them to get them interested but just out of their reach.
Men thrive on challenge and proving themselves.They often don’t know what to do when a good thing just falls right into their lap.
Men want to provide
Men have an innate need to provide for women.These days, this doesn’t mean that they want to bring you home a wooly mammoth but it means they want to be useful to you in some way. Whether it means giving you a ride to work, mowing your lawn or just providing you with some information,it’s important to feed these ancient provider instincts that are deep in the heart of every man.
Men want a committed relationship
Even though many women find it difficult to get a guy to settle down, that is what men actually want. It’s not that they don’t want a relationship,or even that they haven’t met the right woman yet. It’s that the women they’ve been dating haven’t given them exactly what they
want and need.
So what does any of this have to do with texting?
Everything
This is actually way more important when you’re just texting a guy than when you’re seeing him face to face. In person you have access to body language, pheromones, and all the non-verbal aspects of flirting and seduction.
But when you’re texting you have to use language and verbal behavior to get him interested. When Amy North(dating and relationship coach) applied this information to Janine’s
situation, it changed everything.
First, let’s talk about Janine and Ethan. She was a
graduate student in music and a virtuoso piano
player.
She was extremely fit and a former gymnast so she was able to put both legs behind her head
without breaking a sweat.
Janine’s dream guy was Ethan. Ethan started as
her hot TA in undergrad. They hit it off right away.
She’d always stay after class to talk to them and
more than once they ended up hanging out in the
empty classroom for hours.
1. KEEP IT FUNNY AND FLIRTY
Sexting is only awkward if you make it that way. Being flirty and silly are super important to breaking the tension and driving him wild.
2. A LITTLE GOES A LONG WAY
This shouldn’t be a daily or even weekly occurrence. The less often you get X-rated with his inbox, the more exciting it will be when you do.
3. DON’T BE SHY
If you decide to do some sexy texting with a guy, don’t hold back. If you’re going to send nudes, don’t do it half-assed.
Janine got his number that night and they texted a few times but, somehow, that was as far as things ever went. He’d respond to her messages a few hours late if at all.They’d pass each other in the hallways and make small talk but every conversation was awkward and fell flat. She felt like she was talking to some distant relative. Where was the sexy, impulsive Ethan that had held her in his arms the night of the party?
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